This or that questions are a great way to get to know someone or a great way to just burn some time. And if you are looking for a kid friendly list, we also have this or that questions for kids.

This or That Questions
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You can go through the list informally and just ask each other questions. Taking turns or grilling someone for a set amount of questions. Or you can have a bit of fun with it and make it into a game. For more rapid fire questions check out our list of yes or no questions.


So there are few different ways you can play. The first variation works well with small groups or two people while the second works best with just two people.

Mind reader

This is a great game to see how well you know your friends. You’ll need a coin and a piece of paper to hide the coin.

Pick up the coin, ask the question, and place the coin down behind the paper. Heads up if you think their answer will be the first choice and tails up if you think it will be the second choice. Once everyone has made their guess the person answers. And everyone can reveals their coins.

My friend, my clone

Read a question to yourself and think of your answer. Then ask the question. If their answer matches yours, repeat the process. If they have a different answer than yours, switch it up and they read a question and think of their answer; then they ask you the question.

This variation is great for seeing how similar or different you are to the other person.

If you are looking to speed things up you can ask the question and both of you answer on the count of three and see if the answers match.


Whether you’re simply asking the questions or gambling a game, you must get extra info if certainly considered one among their solutions amazed you.

  1. Dog or Cat?
  2. Netflix or YouTube?
  3. Phone Call or Text?
  4. Toast or Eggs?
  5. Cardio or Weights?
  6. Facebook or Twitter?
  7. Ice Cream Cone or Snow Cone?
  8. Mobile Games or Console Games?
  9. While walking: Music or Podcasts?
  10. iOS or Android?
  11. Form or Function?
  12. Pop or Indie?
  13. Cake or Pie?
  14. Swimming or Sunbathing?
  15. High-tech or Low-tech?
  16. Big Party or Small Gathering?
  17. New Clothes or New Phone?
  18. Rich Friend or Loyal Friend?
  19. Football or Basketball?
  20. Work Hard or Play Hard?
  21. Nice Car or Nice Home Interior?
  22. What`s worse: Laundry or Dishes?
  23. Jogging or Hiking?
  24. Bath or Shower?
  25. Sneakers or Sandals?
  26. Glasses or Contacts?
  27. Hamburger or Taco?
  28. Couch or Recliner?
  29. Online Shopping or Shopping in a Store?
  30. Receive: Email or Letter?
  31. Passenger or Driver?
  32. Tablet or Computer?
  33. Most vital in a partner: Intelligent or Funny?
  34. Car or Truck?
  35. Blue or Red?
  36. Money or Free Time?
  37. Amusement Park or Day on the Beach?
  38. At a movie: Candy or Popcorn?
  39. Pen or Pencil?
  40. Toilet paper: Over or Under?
  41. Cups withinside the cupboard: Right Side Up or Up Side Down?
  42. Pancake or Waffle?
  43. Coke or Pepsi?
  44. Coffee Cup or Thermos?
  45. Blinds or Curtain?
  46. Train or Plane?
  47. Phone or Phablet?
  48. Iced Coffee or Hot Coffee?
  49. Meat or Vegetables?
  50. International Vacation or a New TV?
  51. Save or Spend?
  52. Honesty or Other`s Feelings?
  53. Coffee or Tea?
  54. TV or Book?
  55. Movie at Home or Movie on the Theater?
  56. Ocean or Mountains?
  57. Horror Movie or Comedy Movie?
  58. City or Countryside?
  59. Winter or Summer?
  60. Mac or PC?
  61. Console Gaming or PC Gaming?
  62. Soup or Sandwich?
  63. Card Game or Board Game?
  64. Classical Art or Modern Art?
  65. Beer or Wine?
  66. Camping or Binge Watching Shows at Home?
  67. Working Alone or Working in a Team?
  68. Dine In or Delivery?
  69. Sweater or Hoodie?
  70. Comic Book or Comic Strips?
  71. Motorcycle or Bicycle?
  72. Book or eBook?
  73. When sleeping: Fan or No Fan?
  74. Ninjas or Pirates?
  75. TV Shows or Movies?
  76. Summarize